Types of Men in a Relationship
With a post of the types of women in a relationship , there has to be one for men right ? I've watched this video right after watching the types of women in relationships . If one has to work on herself , she must also know what to look for , am I right ? My best friend once told me ," Be pickier with your men . " and so I am .
In the video , they have mentioned that there are 4 types of men in a relationship . A boy , a player , a confused man and a real man . To be the right woman , we have to know the right man to look for as well . Everything that is written below are extracted from the video itself and summarised for my own reference as well as this blog .
A Boy
A boy in a relationship care less about what makes his woman happy ; knows nothing about putting a home together and is not ready to learn . He is more concerned about his mode of dressing than his character . A boy is loose , he kisses and tell , he will talk about his relationship to everybody and openly condemns his woman . A boy will make his mother his next of kin despite being married to a good wife and kids . He never worries about the future as he never wants to grow . A boy knows nothing about responsibility or being responsible . He can be violent and insensitive ; chooses videogames and hanging out with his homeboys rather than staying home . A boy is easily intimidated by his woman's position and status and feels insecure because of her income . He will always fight and demands for respect because he thinks he is a man based on his age . It is difficult to communicate with a boy as he thinks that he is always right , wants to feel superior and thinks he is doing the woman a favour by dating or marrying her .
A Player
It is better to be single than to date a player . As no matter how much effort invested , it will always be in vain . A player is smart but wicked , selfish and inconsiderate and will never stay faithful to one woman . A player is attractive and presentable and may possess many qualities . He will sweep you off your feet in the beginning , tell you things you want to hear and show you the things you want to see ; he will make unbelievable promises to get into your head and heart to take control of what you are thinking . He will spend time and effort just to get between a woman's legs than changes afterwards . His words will start to contradict his actions than his behaviour will start to change drastically . That will leave you to wonder what you did wrong when it isn't your fault . A player's time is limited as he has many women to share his time with . There is no winning with a player unless you're materialistic . A player has no space for love and will only marry for selfish reason or benefits ; he will also lie about his wife to get another woman .
A Confused Man
" One of life's greatest mistake is to embark on a life journey with someone who is not going anywhere in life . "
A confused man doesn't know what he wants . He can be a wonderful guy that doesn't play games , loves and gives you all you want but will never propose . He will gives excuses to put your life on hold because he isn't clear about what he wants in life . Yes , there is no rush in love but there is a difference between endurance and ignorance . Endurance is if you are with a man who knows what he wants and where he is going in life ; with a confused man , it is risky and a waste of time . A confused man will make new promises and deadlines to keep his woman from leaving but dies back to old ways afterwards .
A Real Man
A real man is the best gift any woman can get . He doesn't play games , is ready to commit to one woman , faithful , responsible , trustworthy , loves you and all that concerns you genuinely , will have prove his love to you , sensitive to needs and is " allergic " to your tears . He will treat you like a queen , supports you and will bring the best out of you . He doesn't make promises but makes commitments . He can be your best friend , next of kin , confident , and you will never have to fight or beg for his attention . He will laugh and cry with you . He will be more focused in your future than complain about your past . During conflicts , he will never raise his voice or hands ; will peacefully make you understand his point and will carry you along in his plans . If you disagrees , he will never take offence . He trusts without doubts and gives without expectations . He will be willing to share whatever he has .
One can never date a boy or a player and expect to be treated like a man would .
" In a healthy relationship , your partner hears you out if you're upset , and their goal is to avoid upsetting you in the future , not to debate whether you should have been upset in the first place . "
I think the biggest problem today in the modern day relationship is that most men aren't MEN anymore . There was a time when being with a man meant being with a protector , a lover , a supporter , a friend . A lot of men aren't men in the sense that they're not taking care of their woman. There is no sense in being in a relationship and yet feeling alone . It literally makes no sense to be in a relationship and yet find yourself competing for a position in that person's life . I just wish more men would be more protective of not only the heart of their partner but the relationship as a whole . Men are no longer men in the sense that a lot of them are incapable of making their woman feel secure and safe within the relationship and that's a real problem if this day and age . -r.h. Sin
" Can I tell you a secret ? You don't have to be in a relationship . I mean it . I know they force it down your throat until you choke on it . Girls aren't pretty unless they're wanted . Boys aren't men unless they're having sex with someone . People aren't lovable until they're dating someone . But a relationship won't always make you happy , and as wonderful as romance is it isn't the only love that exists . I've seen friendships that are deeper and more pure than couples who swear it's forever - and yet the friendship is the one people ignore . I have heard so often "nobody loves me" out of the mouths of people who are single , and it kills me because you ask them : where are your parents , your teachers , your classmates , your pets - they say , yes , okay , but it doesn't count . Of course it counts , love doesn't diminish just because someone doesn't want to have sex with you . In fact , doesn't it sort of make that love more real that they want nothing - not even a date - out of you ? It is pretty to be in love. It's magical , I'm sure . But it is also wonderful to stop for ice cream in your prom dress with six other girls . It's also wonderful to go visit the world with nothing but a bunch of buddies who are really excited about learning . The problem is : we've made everything about " the one " . But maybe " the one " is just you , loving yourself , having fun , and being happy . Maybe instead of looking for our other halves , we should be piecing ourselves together . Maybe I was born unfinished . Maybe I am the one who makes myself better . "
Link to video : https://www.facebook.com/NagmahalNasaktanNAGWORSHIP/videos/1762688410481757/
In the video , they have mentioned that there are 4 types of men in a relationship . A boy , a player , a confused man and a real man . To be the right woman , we have to know the right man to look for as well . Everything that is written below are extracted from the video itself and summarised for my own reference as well as this blog .
A Boy
A boy in a relationship care less about what makes his woman happy ; knows nothing about putting a home together and is not ready to learn . He is more concerned about his mode of dressing than his character . A boy is loose , he kisses and tell , he will talk about his relationship to everybody and openly condemns his woman . A boy will make his mother his next of kin despite being married to a good wife and kids . He never worries about the future as he never wants to grow . A boy knows nothing about responsibility or being responsible . He can be violent and insensitive ; chooses videogames and hanging out with his homeboys rather than staying home . A boy is easily intimidated by his woman's position and status and feels insecure because of her income . He will always fight and demands for respect because he thinks he is a man based on his age . It is difficult to communicate with a boy as he thinks that he is always right , wants to feel superior and thinks he is doing the woman a favour by dating or marrying her .
A Player
It is better to be single than to date a player . As no matter how much effort invested , it will always be in vain . A player is smart but wicked , selfish and inconsiderate and will never stay faithful to one woman . A player is attractive and presentable and may possess many qualities . He will sweep you off your feet in the beginning , tell you things you want to hear and show you the things you want to see ; he will make unbelievable promises to get into your head and heart to take control of what you are thinking . He will spend time and effort just to get between a woman's legs than changes afterwards . His words will start to contradict his actions than his behaviour will start to change drastically . That will leave you to wonder what you did wrong when it isn't your fault . A player's time is limited as he has many women to share his time with . There is no winning with a player unless you're materialistic . A player has no space for love and will only marry for selfish reason or benefits ; he will also lie about his wife to get another woman .
A Confused Man
" One of life's greatest mistake is to embark on a life journey with someone who is not going anywhere in life . "
A confused man doesn't know what he wants . He can be a wonderful guy that doesn't play games , loves and gives you all you want but will never propose . He will gives excuses to put your life on hold because he isn't clear about what he wants in life . Yes , there is no rush in love but there is a difference between endurance and ignorance . Endurance is if you are with a man who knows what he wants and where he is going in life ; with a confused man , it is risky and a waste of time . A confused man will make new promises and deadlines to keep his woman from leaving but dies back to old ways afterwards .
A Real Man
A real man is the best gift any woman can get . He doesn't play games , is ready to commit to one woman , faithful , responsible , trustworthy , loves you and all that concerns you genuinely , will have prove his love to you , sensitive to needs and is " allergic " to your tears . He will treat you like a queen , supports you and will bring the best out of you . He doesn't make promises but makes commitments . He can be your best friend , next of kin , confident , and you will never have to fight or beg for his attention . He will laugh and cry with you . He will be more focused in your future than complain about your past . During conflicts , he will never raise his voice or hands ; will peacefully make you understand his point and will carry you along in his plans . If you disagrees , he will never take offence . He trusts without doubts and gives without expectations . He will be willing to share whatever he has .
One can never date a boy or a player and expect to be treated like a man would .
" In a healthy relationship , your partner hears you out if you're upset , and their goal is to avoid upsetting you in the future , not to debate whether you should have been upset in the first place . "
I think the biggest problem today in the modern day relationship is that most men aren't MEN anymore . There was a time when being with a man meant being with a protector , a lover , a supporter , a friend . A lot of men aren't men in the sense that they're not taking care of their woman. There is no sense in being in a relationship and yet feeling alone . It literally makes no sense to be in a relationship and yet find yourself competing for a position in that person's life . I just wish more men would be more protective of not only the heart of their partner but the relationship as a whole . Men are no longer men in the sense that a lot of them are incapable of making their woman feel secure and safe within the relationship and that's a real problem if this day and age . -r.h. Sin
" Can I tell you a secret ? You don't have to be in a relationship . I mean it . I know they force it down your throat until you choke on it . Girls aren't pretty unless they're wanted . Boys aren't men unless they're having sex with someone . People aren't lovable until they're dating someone . But a relationship won't always make you happy , and as wonderful as romance is it isn't the only love that exists . I've seen friendships that are deeper and more pure than couples who swear it's forever - and yet the friendship is the one people ignore . I have heard so often "nobody loves me" out of the mouths of people who are single , and it kills me because you ask them : where are your parents , your teachers , your classmates , your pets - they say , yes , okay , but it doesn't count . Of course it counts , love doesn't diminish just because someone doesn't want to have sex with you . In fact , doesn't it sort of make that love more real that they want nothing - not even a date - out of you ? It is pretty to be in love. It's magical , I'm sure . But it is also wonderful to stop for ice cream in your prom dress with six other girls . It's also wonderful to go visit the world with nothing but a bunch of buddies who are really excited about learning . The problem is : we've made everything about " the one " . But maybe " the one " is just you , loving yourself , having fun , and being happy . Maybe instead of looking for our other halves , we should be piecing ourselves together . Maybe I was born unfinished . Maybe I am the one who makes myself better . "
Link to video : https://www.facebook.com/NagmahalNasaktanNAGWORSHIP/videos/1762688410481757/
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