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December 2019

From wanting to pen a lengthy instagram post to a rollercoster of emotions . Still feels extremely surreal that everything (the pregnancy announcement and marriage) happened and is now over . What's left is the wait to enter motherhood . Tying the knot I must admit that lifestyle after marriage doesn't feel much of a difference except the amount of messages we are getting from people to congratulate us and the status . My husband is really happy to call me his wife , I find it really cute haha . As much as being a married couple does not feel much different , I still constantly remind myself that I've entered a different chapter of my life , a whole new milestone . I can no longer play or enjoy things people around my age do and I honestly never did , pregnant and married or not . I felt like I skipped the fun part haha . I also feel more responsible of my husband , be it wellbeing or whatsoever , and being a more reserved person (contradicting since I put most of thes...

My OWN Family !!

By the time this post is published , many of you who will likely know about this blog from my Instagram , would know I'm having my own family . At my time of writing this , I'm halfway through my pregnancy and I'm getting married in less than a month .  I've gotten many doubts from people as to why I would like to settle down so early (mainly because I've kept my pregnancy under the covers for 5 months) , if I'm sure of my fiancé and stuffs . Not so much something I would like to hear 5 months pregnant but humans are humans right . However , I do have to point out the fact that I've been more realistic than ever since I found out about my beautiful baby , that many people's opinion actually mean absolute nothing to me , but since I'm not an influencer or anything , I can still address all of em . I might sound arrogant or harsh in the rest of the post which I would TRY not to (?) , but bare with me if you wanna hear what I have to say . 😊 Settling d...

Types of Men in a Relationship

With a post of the types of women in a relationship , there has to be one for men right ? I've watched this video right after watching the types of women in relationships . If one has to work on herself , she must also know what to look for , am I right ? My best friend once told me ," Be pickier with your men . " and so I am . In the video , they have mentioned that there are 4 types of men in a relationship . A boy , a player , a confused man and a real man . To be the right woman , we have to know the right man to look for as well . Everything that is written below are extracted from the video itself and summarised for my own reference as well as this blog . A Boy A boy in a relationship care less about what makes his woman happy ; knows nothing about putting a home together and is not ready to learn . He is more concerned about his mode of dressing than his character . A boy is loose , he kisses and tell , he will talk about his relationship to everybody and open...

Types of Women in a Relationship

I've came across a video on Facebook by Akinspiration on the types of women in a relationship and I felt like penning it down here as I feel that it is really important to men and women out there . Many of us have had bad experience and probably many of you think like I do just because of the constant bad experiences , "all men / women are trash" or "are the same" , but the truth is there are many good people out there . Perhaps the fault lies on ourselves . In the video , they mentioned that there 3 types of women in relationships : a girl , a material girl and a real woman . Now , we all want to be or have the real woman right ? However , how many of us know the qualities of a good woman or to be one ? Everything that is written below are extracted from the video itself and summarised for my own reference as well as for this blog . A girl " Until you know where you are going and your purpose for going there , you may never get anywhere in life . With...